When wedding season rolls around, there are many things to look forward to. From choosing what to wear to having a great time on the dance floor, weddings can be a blast. However, certain etiquette still applies. A general rule of thumb is to never wear white to a wedding, but there is more cringeworthy behavior that’s worth mentioning. Unless you want to be that one guest that is the star of the wedding video or the topic of conversation the next morning, here are five things you should never do at a wedding: 

Overdrink 

There’s nothing worse than being sloppy and having one to many at a wedding. It’s important to keep in mind that the evening is an incredible milestone for the bride and groom, and one they’ve spent a lot of time and money on. It is never a good idea to drink like you are at a club or a bar on such a special evening for the new Mr. and Mrs. and their families. 

Play Photographer  

The bride and groom have chosen a wedding photographer to document their special day. There’s no need for a dozen guests to snap photos and videos of the ceremony with their phones or iPads. This is not only distracting for the photographers, but it will also keep you from enjoying the moment. 

Give an Impromptu Speech 

If you aren’t a part of the bridal party or an immediate family member or close friend, a surprise toast isn’t a good idea (especially if you’ve had a drink or two). If the bride and groom have invited you to make a toast, then that’s your cue. Otherwise, sit back, relax, and enjoy the evening sans the mic time. 

Bring an Unannounced Guest  

Each seat as a wedding, no matter how casual, is accounted for. Be considerate of the bride and groom and all their preparations by sticking to the number of guests you indicated on the RSVP card. Guests should never assume it’s okay to ask a friend or date to come along unannounced last minute. 

Gossip about the Wedding 

Word travels fast at a wedding and almost all social scenes. It is never okay to gossip about the bride and groom, their wedding, bridal party, or any of the guests. Not only is this extremely disrespectful, chances are high that your commentary will reach the hosts of the wedding. When attending a wedding, it’s always safest to keep your opinions to yourself.