There’s nothing quite like planning a wedding to bring out your creative Do-It-Yourself (DIY) side! But knowing when to leave the “doing” to the professionals can save you time and frustration. Here’s a list of the most common wedding-day DIYs, along with their Don’t-Do-It-Yourself (DDIY) counterparts. That way, you can make sure you’re headed down the right path!

DIY #1: Invitations

While handmade invitations tend to come out looking like a kid’s art project, embellishing ones ordered online or in person can be a fabulous way to add a personal touch. Browse different styles at WeddingPaperDivas or ExclusivelyWeddings for creative, customizable templates. You can also order pieces separately to mix and match as you see fit, and add your own sparkle with glitter, photos, ribbon, or flowers. Anything goes!

DDIY#1: Hand-Written Invitations

Make sure to avoid hand-writing your invitations—it’s not very attractive. Instead, use a digital print of a “handwritten” style or something that’s otherwise clean and clearly legible.

DIY #2: Wedding Favors

This is great place to add your personal touch! Browse craft stores such as Michael’s, Joanne’s, Oriental Trading, or even online at Pinterest for inspiration. Some great examples include candy jars, your own recipe book, monogrammed reuseable bags, chalkboards, jam, mugs, even a donation to your favor charity on your guests’ behalf. Be creative!

DDIY#2: Flower Arrangements

With so much requiring your attention the day of the wedding, it’s difficult to imagine having time to arrange your own flowers. At most, you should only be buying the flowers at the flower mart for someone else who will arrange them for you. However, the best way to save money when it comes to flowers is to have the florist make arrangements for your ceremony aisle that can be re-used as your table centerpieces. This is a great way to save a few extra dollars! Just make sure to have an extra helper to run those arrangements to and from the ceremony/reception.

DIY#3:

Photo collages

A photo collage is a great way to introduce yourself as a couple. Assemble cute photos into something memorable for your guests, as well as something you can use later on in your home. It will be a great keepsake from the day. Use tools like Shutterfly, Costco, or Picasa.

DDIY#3: Photography

Photos are what you have left for the rest of your life—don’t compromise this valuable asset for a few dollars. Find someone you trust and whose style you like. Most importantly, have a signed contract. Working in the event business, I’ve seen instances where the photographer was a friend who didn’t arrive until after the cake cutting! Get a pro and sign that dotted line.

DIY#4: Music and DJ

Much like photos, the music you play will leave a lasting mark with your family, friends, and loved ones. Don’t let the DJ dictate his or her style. Also, allow ample time for selecting the first-dance song—rushing might lead to relying on an old standby or cliché.

DDIY#4: DJ

Using someone you know or a friend of a friend in this category might save money, but a professional DJ does more than spin music—he or she drives the timeline for your entire reception. Don’t risk putting a friend in charge who’ll simply plug in their iPod and hit the hosted bar.

DIY#5: Candy Station

Candy stations are a cheap and effective way to add some fun to your event. Warehouse candy stores are all over town and can deliver almost anywhere. You can purchase glass holders at Michael’s or online at sites such as Koyal Wholesale.

DDIY#5: Chocolate Fountains

Unlike candy stations, a chocolate fountain is a project you’ll want to hire a professional for.

Although you can purchase one of your own, it won’t compare to the size, beauty, and durability of a commercial version. Some venues now offer a complimentary chocolate fountain when you book, so be sure and ask if you’re interested in having one.

DIY#6: Thank You Cards

Thank you cards are an absolute must. Similar to your invitations, order a template card and add an extra touch of your own to make it all the more meaningful. I recommend writing the notes by hand to add a personal touch for each guest who gave his or her time on your special day.

I hope you find these tips helpful! The most important thing to keep in mind is that, as nice as DIY touches can be, there might be a business who can execute your ideas for less money and in a shorter amount of time, giving you more time with your soon-to-be husband or wife. Definitely something to consider!